Tantric Massage - what to expect
Tantric massage is not a step-by-step process. It could for example include erotic dance movements, or the giver sliding body-to-body up and down the receiver, or gentle stroking or tickling of the skin, or just being close to your partner concentrating on his or her breathing and scent. By sharing another person’s space and time zone, it is a massage of the senses as well as the body and not just a way to gain arousal. However, arousal is an important part of the healing process and should be an integral part of the massage as sexual energy is the main focus in a Tantric massage.
Above all else, the treatment I offer is centred around you, my goddess for the evening. It is your sacred space and time in which to enjoy your own sensuality and experience the healing process in your own way. Everyone is different and all my clients have their own unique reasons for wanting a tantric massage treatment.
Our arousal triggers vary from person to person, which is why I take the time before the massage ritual to find out 'what makes you tick'. As a result, the massage itself will vary from one client to the next and each time will be different for the same person because I am led by my instincts. However the tantric massage 'ritual' can be roughly categorised into several distinct stages, and the session will start with us both clothed in either a silk robe or sarong for a 'worshipping ceremony'. At this point we will both be standing for an initial grounding exercise designed to: create a temporary emotional bond between us; sensitise your skin; rid you of your negative energies; and relax you (I do all the work - you remain passive throughout).
Towards the end of this first phase our robes are removed, and normally we will both be naked however I am happy to wear shorts if this is your preference (you can also wear a thong if you feel more comfortable and you do not wish to experience the yoni massage).
I will then lead you to the massage table and invite you to climb up and lie on your front for the second phase which includes some deep massage work to relieve the tension in your back, arms, shoulders & neck.
The third phase is very sensual and involves lighter stroking techniques utilising props such as feathers, silk, a brush, etc. (or anything else that you care to provide that you find particularly sensual to the touch).
Then, the final part of the treatment on this half of your body includes a mixture of firm and slow, light, sensual massage strokes using warmed oil.
You will then be invited to turn over and phases 3 & 4 are repeated on your front half. Up to this point you will have experienced at least two hours of heavenly bliss.
Some people find this to be just the right amount of sensuality to enhance their sexual well-being and improve the flow of their sexual energies. However, normally most women prefer to continue to the optional
Yoni Massage. This simply exquisite part of the treatment concentrates on the pubic and vaginal areas and also includes a G-spot massage. For most, this is the pinnacle of sensual experiences often resulting in one or many orgasms (although an orgasm isn’t the goal with this treatment).
I should point out that the
Yoni Massage is entirely optional and you will be given the choice at the end of the main treatment. The most important thing is for you to feel relaxed, at ease, and ready to open up, otherwise you will not experience the full benefit of this fantastic, truly holistic treatment.
Please note that due to the intimate nature of this treatment and close body contact, I expect you to bathe or shower before my arrival. Additionally I will always do the same so that you can be completely assured of my cleanliness.