Yoni Massage - what to expect
Yoni is the Sanskrit word for female genitalia that is loosely translated as "Sacred Space" or "Sacred Temple." In Tantra, the Yoni is seen from a perspective of love and respect.
The goal of the Yoni massage is not solely to achieve orgasm, although this is often a pleasant and welcome side effect. From this perspective the client can relax, and does not have to worry about achieving any particular goal. When orgasm does occur it is usually more expanded, more intense and more satisfying.
My client will already be very relaxed and lying on her back following the massage treatment. The head end of the massage table can be raised if the client wants to watch her Yoni being massaged. Her legs are spread apart with the knees slightly bent to allow me to slide my legs underneath hers and she can then rest her legs on my thighs. During the Yoni massage, I will ask my client to concentrate on relaxed, deep breathing.
I will start by gently massaging the inside of her thighs and her abdomen before pouring a small quantity of warmed oil on the ‘mound’ so that it drips down the outer lips and covers the outside of the Yoni. I then begin gently massaging the mound and outer lips of the Yoni. This is done at a nice, slow, relaxing pace before gently squeezing her outer lips between my thumb and index finger, and sliding up and down the full length of each lip. The same is repeated on the inner lips. Additional techniques are employed such as "labia shiatsu", "womb drumming" & "pussy petting" before moving to the clitoris where a variety of delicate strokes are used including the "tease & tickle", "clit rock" and the "bellpush".
Then I insert one or two fingers inside the Yoni to gently explore and massage around the area to relax & nurture the Yoni, employing such techniques as the "crescent moon". I continue by massaging the tantric "sacred spot" (or G-spot) with my finger(s).
If my client has an orgasm at any stage, I will keep her breathing deeply, and continue massaging if she wants. She may experience more orgasms with each one increasing in intensity. In Tantra this is called "riding the wave." Don’t forget though that this is not the goal but a possible bonus. Even without an orgasm the client should experience ecstasy on a different level to her previous experiences. Women often have pre-conceived ideas that something is expected in return when a man touches her vagina. Whereas during a Yoni massage the lady is relieved of the pressure that many feel when making love, and instead experience the pleasure of being touched in a loving way without anything being expected in return.
Various other possible benefits are well documented and include:-
Opening up to new levels of ecstatic pleasure
Release of emotional tension & stress
Elimination of emotional blockages in relation to sex
Reduction of menstrual pain
Elimination of pain when having intercourse
Making the Yoni more sensitive and more pleasurable to receive touch
Increasing natural lubrication when sexually aroused
More powerful orgasms and easier to achieve
Reduction of cellulite on the upper legs and buttocks